Hi,
I'd like your option if you think my husband has antisocial personality/psychopathic traits. I've read your reply's and think you'd be very helpful, if of course you wouldn't mind answering me? Thank you!

My husband:
43 year-old ( has a bit of a drinking problem) from Ireland, was abused severely by his father ( he NEVER told me this, his brother's and sister have, I guess my husband got it the worst, his father is very narcissistic himself.

*husbsand loves to make people uncomfortable by getting a rise out of them whenever he enters the room

*Lies constantly and trust me he could win an Oscar.
*loves to project, gaslight me, tells me I'm bipolar, puts me down to others and makes me out like I have competition with them.
*everytime he gets "Mad" it's so fake and puts on a fake tantrum and could laugh and give me thousands of dollars later if asked for it. Just a lack of empathy in general.
* will constantly question me if our son has "eaten enough" he knows that drives me crazy, our son is a healthy toddler, yet my husband loves to make me as a bad mother and compares me to other mothers we know.
*picks apart what he says are my faults. And if we are getting along fine, he makes sure he destroys it by taunting me about unrealistic things that he knows will get me riled up, and laughs at that. He truly gets off on it.
* extremely self-serving. Does what he wants at all times and doesn't care who it effects.
* has and attachment disrorder. I could go on and on. Is any of this behavior familiar with you? Does he qualify? I'd really appreciate your input.

Thanks so much