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Old Nov 26, 2016, 09:46 PM
Anonymous59125
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Originally Posted by Shy Introvert View Post
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I try my best to do just that. Why are some people like that when you're nothing but nice to them? I don't get that at all!

What would you have done if someone made an indirect and mean comment about the way that you looked in your presence? Would you call them out, look at them funny, say something to H.R or the manager, or ignore them and not let them know that they hurt you? I ignored her as I think that most bullies love to hurt people and get off on hurting other people.
Yeah, I'd call them out. One time all the girls in the office were laughing and making fun of this girl down the isle near the break room. Apparently when you came out of the break room, the angle would allow you to see right down this poor girls shirt. So all the catty girls decided to just laugh hysterically. I ran right down and told the girl what was going on and she thanked me. She didn't know people could see down her shirt. It's human kindness to inform a person. I don't expect much from people anymore....I've seen too much and people don't always get kinder when they get older....it can be the opposite just to warn you. There is no way to understand what makes these people tick. They don't know what makes them tick either. I think it's sick and wish they would get a clue but I'm no genie and can't grant wishes

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