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Originally Posted by Bill3
Your words suggest that you have had a very strong reaction to his actions. It was this sort of reaction, i suspect, that he hoped to avoid; this could be why he lied to you.
It is no wonder that you feel uneasy. It is quite difficult for me to believe that his barber texts him multiple times in a week about his haircut. If she is "goofy", perhaps he would be willing to share those texts with you.
And he still sees her monthly for a haircut?
It will be hard to forgive when you don't know how close they became and therefore what you would be forgiving him for and to what extent he betrayed you.
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The red flag was the fact she cut his hair for a few years before we met and he has used her the entire time we've been together. Almost two years, and I never mention her. All this happened a few months ago.
He switched barbers, (my best friend)
Yeah, checking his past txt log seemed to catch him off guard. He was more than willing to show me his records. Im pretty sure he thought I could only see current txt log. But when I went to past txt log, he acted shocked. So he didn't have time to come up with a good lie.
He works nights, when he arrived at my place after work, he always took his phone and iPad to bed with him. Since the confrontation he leavs both in the living room when he goes to bed. I guess to allow me to snoop since he knows she won't be contacting him.
He always deleted txt and call log. Convenient.