You misunderstood. I did not snoop in his phone. This was an observation, before all this happened. He would take both iPad and iPhone to bed with him while he was sleeping. They are synced, so messages and calls go to both.

Over reacting? Just out of the blue someone tells you "I went this new barber, he did a great job blah blah blah.... then I went to that new barber for a cut but the line was too long, I need to go to this store next week, while I'm on that end of town I'm going to go to the barber, I just got my haircut, he did a great job. I specifically ask, did you go to Jane? No I haven't been to her in months.

There was not a new barber.

He said he doesn't know why he lied but nothing was going on. I ask if I could see his cell phone records for peace of mind.

Yes, I have trust issues. I told him from the beginning that I've been cheated on a lot in my past relationships. It's hard to let my guard down.