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Old Nov 27, 2016, 09:51 AM
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Okay, I didn't mean to offend just was unclear on the whole situation. So obviously from your past experience it takes a lot for you to trust. I think getting to the bottom of why he lied may help.

I don't think your relationship is doomed. This was a misstep but you can overcome it. Do you see a therapist? I think working on your trust issues could help. After trust has been broken, it takes time for that trust to be built back up. Your bf will have to understand that. He will also have to understand that from time to time your hurt feelings will still come up.
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