That's ok you didn't offend me. I have not seen a therapist in a few years. Because it became all about self love and trying to help me to do that to overcome my low self esteem and self worth. I do need to go back because this is driving me crazy.
He is trying but when ask why? He says I don't know why.

It would not have bothered me if she txt him. They have known each over four years. There wasn't enough texting that screamed affair and she always initiated the calls and txt. He unfriended her on facebook around that time. He said because he was concerned it would cause us problems. She commented on his post occasionally, nothing questionable.

Maybe she was hitting on him and he liked the ego boost. I have no clue. But he went through a lot of trouble trying to convince me she was no longer in the picture. And with my history with cheating, I'm thinking the worst.

Thanks again