It's a chemical/lower brain/"animal" urge to reproduce. Why would you give in to that in this way when it can hurt your relationship with several people, yourself included?
Do a little work on communicating and getting the sensual feelings/chemistry back with your husband. He's there for "free" and no strings attached that will hurt you or others. It's not greener on the other side of the fence, that's male bovine waste product thinking.
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