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I wonder if this is because im adopted that it doesnt matter because im not really her kid… I have done nothing to her all day but she still hates me more than anything or anybody in the world.
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Hi,
I feel your hurt and pain. Your problems stem not from your adopted mother but what you endured before the adoption. I don't know your circumstances but abandonment in or losing the natural mother affects/scares every child. In childhood the most frequent cause of nightmares or night terrors are cased by fear of abandonment by the mother.
Your anger is really aimed at your natural mother, or mother figure before you were adopted. Try to make peace with your adoptive mum and with yourself.