Being too much trouble for someone doesn't mean anything about you, it means the other person cannot handle it and that is their right. I am too much for some people and too little for others. For some people I am just right. Sometimes when people are going through their own stuff, they simply cannot handle stuff from anyone else. They might be standing on the edge of a cliff and hanging on by a thread. If they need to take a step back from others for their own safety, so be it. Does it hurt? Of course it does! But we cannot always expect people to do what seems right to us....sometimes they must do what is right for them even if it hurts us.

The right friends will not continually leave you feeling let down. Might they let you down sometimes and still be a good friend? Yes! The trick is knowing and trusting your feelings regarding them. If they consistently let you down, it might be time to evaluate the situation in greater depth. (((Hugs)))