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Originally Posted by Cyllya
... I would expect most autistic people to find the opening post a bit offensive, so I'm sympathetic to someone acting offended.
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I can understand why some might be, but I was not and there is certainly nothing wrong with a bit of candor in relation to one's actual knowledge while asking questions.
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Originally Posted by Shadix
If I am [on the spectrum], does it mean I am doomed to forever being somewhat socially awkward and there is no point in trying to be more charismatic and pleasant?
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I have had to learn to do some things mechanically where a typical neurotypical person might do the same thing quite naturally and even with no thought required, but even then we still do not have to be stuck with appearing robotic.
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Originally Posted by Shadix
Are people with Aspergers just not wired to be charismatic and pleasant in social situations?
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I no longer concern myself with whatever I might *not* be wired to do naturally. Instead, I look for ways to make use of whatever I *do* have while working at improving my interactions with others.
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Originally Posted by Shadix
... I feel like I have nothing to make up for my social awkwardness.
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You have the ability to ask questions and ponder answers and then ask for tips and/or help related to application...and there is where it can all begin for you.