Now here's something I can't understand that perhaps you can help me with, Rhapsody. If women don't want to deal with selfish men, why bother with dating?

I think part of my ignorance comes from my age, and perhaps it's different in an adult social scene, but I know as a teenager, there are NOTHING BUT selfish boys (not men yet, obviously). Selfish, immature, inexperienced, rude boys. So I don't concern myself with dating.

I guess that there are plenty of grown women out there that feel like they need to put up with selfishness and rudeness because it's a priority to start a family. But it seems to me like it's up to the individual to decide if it's worth all that.

Does that happen in the adult world? Does that make sense?