My mother did the same thing to me. She would put these thoughts of doubt in my head and then I would doubt my own feelings and end the relationship. My mother is very toxic and we have had a strange, volatile relationship for life.

I married the ideal man that she should have been thrilled about. Yet she still found plenty of negatives to say and start trouble about over the years. I learned there was just no pleasing her no matter what I did.

Do what is in your heart and stay far away from your mother for the sake of your eventual marriage to whomever.