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Old Nov 28, 2016, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Shadix View Post
Nothing makes me awesome or admirable. Like I said, I am not witty or charismatic or fun to be around. But yes I do want to be around people who think I'm awesome. Who doesn't want to be? You want to be around people who just let you tag along because they feel sorry for you? I am sure you don't. I didn't say I want them to put me on a pedestal or worship me, I just want them to think highly of me, like they do of each other.

You criticize my thought process, but what's your alternative? Be happy with people who think I am worthless simply because they are right? It doesn't work that way.
How about you stop being narcissistic & settle for just being liked? And just be yourself. Not everybody is awesome, admirable, charismatic or fun. How about you put your ego & fantasies out of the way & just be real. There is a place for simple, decent people with some humility and balance.

The normal think is to hang out where you are welcome. I didn't say admired. If somebody truly thinks you are worthless, only hang out with them if you gain enough from doing so, if that is possible.