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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Thanks everyone for your support. It's always meant so much to come here for a somewhat objective opinion. In my case, I seem to have lost the ability to see things that way. I think that happens with depression. Probably happens with most mental illness.
Things are going really well for this particular person.
I think what they did stinks and, maybe, she's showing her true colors. She's a friend when it suits her convenience, I guess.
I cannot, nor will I ever, be like that for anyone, friend or not.
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It does stink and it's not fair. If this person habitually let's you down and is only there when she needs something it would be healthy to reevaluate this relationship. We can only control our own behaviors and not the behaviors of others. Making a decision not to be like the people who hurt you is a wise decision. (((Hugs)))