I'm very sorry to hear all that seesaw. (((Hugs))). My brother beat me brutally, put my life in danger, tried to molest me and threatened to kill me and my entire family with a gun when I was about 17. I think he has NPD. My brother made erroneous allegations against my parents and created his own narrative where he is a victim of things that didn't happen as he says they did. My parents want NOTHING to do with my brother and my mother cried her eyes out and said she probably couldn't talk to me if I stayed in contact with him. My parents have been violated by him enough and no longer want any contact. They wish him well but want zero contact with him or his NPD wife. I want to contact him and get nostalgic for the good times or the relationship I feel we should have. I'm very conflicted but my parents are not. I wish none of this happened to either of us. (((Hugs)))