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Rhapsody said:
"WOMEN fall in LOVE with a Man's POTENTIAL"

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It seems unfair that a woman should date a man with the intent of changing him.
Perhaps that's why men turn selfish - as a defense to their feeling like they're being robbed of themselves...?

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I agree with you there......... and yet I did not try to change my man - I gave him the world and his space (and sex) as needed..... and all I asked in return was the basic needs of any human in love with another "trust, love, respect, time and intimacy" - and the SELFISHNESS still reared its ugly head.

Now What could the Reason be?
- other than personal inner blue-print? - genetic make up?