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Originally Posted by zijax
How do I let go of it when part of my job is looking after my sister? I clean her apartment, take out her trash, I helped her move up here close to me so I could take care of her. I don't know where the boundary exists, where I need to stop and let go. My Dad is in charge of her finances so I can't do anything with that. I guess it will need to be a case by case thing.
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It's very kind of you to take care of your sister!

The world would be a better place with more people like you.
Maybe it's time to sit down and talk with the whole team -- your mom, your dad, yourself -- and let them know their ways are too hard on you. Explain you do all you can to help your sister and you need their help/cooperation?
Be honest with them.
Is something like this -- a team talk -- possible?

WC