If it is narcissistic to want your peers to find you likable and intelligent, then I am a card carrying narcissist. I can never accept being liked but looked down on as a socially awkward, incompetent loser. In fact, I am not sure if I would consider that "being liked". In my experience, most people dislike those that they do not consider admirable. Some people are just nice even to those they dislike. Then when you throw in having a brother who is witty and charismatic, it only becomes less acceptable for me to be unlikable and incompetent.