>>>>>>>. Share........... The one thing of loss and grief (( Sadness )) Can be all encompessing.

The place we seem to stay,,, is we are still.. and sometimes wish for answers ....want for answers ....or feel relief.

Past is memories ,,that we may want to share or keep as our own>>>>>>>>> for if we give them to another,,,we might lose that ,,, that is special to ourselves,,,,,,,,,,,Feeling loss is seperate to all >>.... as is the loss.

But now choose or not to wear the shoes of another,,, who knows you or you them>>>>that is no longer here .

And maybe what you yourself might give could maybe ressurect a memory ...,,, that now might be given to you ,,that was never known or felt , understood ,, or seen as keenly as may at the sight and eyes of that person you are sharing your sadness with .

Memories are that what they are ,,,,, seperate to those who knew and felt the presence of that which is gone or who that is no longer here to speak to >>>>>>>>>.The only thing I have found that is consistent>>>>>>>>>>. The loss.

The grief.

And LOVE.

So if shared with those freely as a place we know ,, and a place our heart is at >>>>>>>>> then maybe healing is a combined effort for those touched at one time or another by the special gift that the departed left >>> That they were here >>> and they did their best good or bad To be them and best we might gleen is knowledge and .......................................................... >>>>>>>>>>>. courage to be the best we can.