Are you sure you didn't marry MY husband?

My reaction to his lack of help is to do it myself. About the time I get the ladder out of the garage he comes out to see what I'm doing and cleans the gutters for me. And sometimes, I do whatever it is I wanted him to do by myself.

It's forced me to be more independent...which subconciously he doesn't like. I don't rely on him to do things. On some level, he wants me to rely on him.

There's another idea. It might work, and it might not, but it's worth a try. (((Morn))) I hope things get better.