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Old Nov 29, 2016, 02:49 PM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by shakespeare47 View Post
It doesn't make it right to humiliate people.
Do you ever look back and think about what you could have done differently? and/or what you would do if in the same situation again?

There are many situations in which the best response is just to leave and find a better environment.
Here was the first example that popped in my head. It happened this last year. I was in a leadership class. The teacher said she was a body language expert and had us all shake hands. When she watched me shake, I didn't insert my hand fully into my partner's, but drew it back and shook more gently. She embarrassed me in front of the whole class saying she could tell by my handshake I had no character!

I was taken aback. But I just blurted out "That's not true. I have character" and I just tried to laugh it off. Others commented to me that was so rude of her and how I obviously have good character.
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