I've been with my girlfriend for a couple months now and she still remains very embarrassed of her figure. I keep telling her with complete sincerity that I love her and I love her figure. She's on the heavy side, but not extremely heavy. She only 5'3" at 190 and I'm 6' at 305. So compared to me she is tiny. One evening she mentioned that she want's to get down to 120 and I support her in that. I then go on to say "whether you weigh 120 or 320 you will be beautiful in my eyes" but she just disregards my sincerity. She wont take any compliment regarding her figure. I'm always met with a "I don't know" or "thanks I guess". It kills me that she cannot see her own beauty when I see it all the time. I hate it when a she downs her own physique every morning. I hate it that she refuses to have sex with a lamp on. I hate it when she won't let me touch her belly. I hate that straight after sex she insists on finding her clothes before I can even cuddle. I hate it when she is scared to sit on my lap, lay on top of me, straddle me etc... most of all I hate the look in her eyes