Totally normal. I didn't begin to find my identity until I was about 22-- I'm 26 now and still discovering.

Most people begin to find their identities a bit earlier, I guess... at least that's what Erikson says, lol. Anyway, I was so consumed with the beginnings of my depression and panic disorder at that time, that I never had a chance to figure out who I am. The illnesses determined that for me. It wasn't until I got better control over all of that, that I could start finding out who I was, what I wanted to do, etc. And like I said, I'm still exploring and discovering all the time.