I have to say, get out of the marriage. What is keeping you in it?

As far as the friend/husband thing....I find it very strange that she wants to share her husband, but I do know there are people out there like that. Swingers and such. My boyfriend is great in bed and if I had a girl friend in your situation, I'd feel bad for her, but I couldn't offer up my boyfriend as a solution. I just couldn't. But thats me. If you choose to do it and she's ok with it, then have a good time......

I do worry that one night will make you feel great and then you'll crash from the letdown. Its not going to solve anything......

So again....why are you still in this marriage?