So I was talking to my girlfriend on the phone last night. Somehow I made a sexual flirt and she starts freaking out that I'm only with her for sex. I felt really hurt when she said that actually and kind of mad. I always thought I was just harmlessly flirting and teasing her. Throughout the day I will make multiple sexual remarks and try and get a flirtatious response. I never do since she is so inexperienced due to her past abusive boyfriends. But she will unknowingly tease me by saying "when I'm on my monthly I get really horny" and/or "I feel so frustrated (horny) today". When I respond with a comment on how we can solve her problem she gets really quiet.

Our sex life is unusual. She is not on the pill yet so we're limited to oral and hands. She seems to be very happy with my work when I pleasure her. However I have a hard time getting off because of my Prozac. So before I'm even close she complains about a sore jaw and tired hands. Which leaves me to relieve myself or get blue balls. I know she tries hard to satisfy me, and I actually feel really bad because I know it upsets her when she can't. At this point we've fooled about 5 times and I always satisfy her, but I have never been satisfied. So I will say that I'm very frustrated and because of this it's on my mind a lot. But I'm not constantly sending her d-pics, sexting, or trying to guilt her.

Honestly before we even had sex I had a feeling that my sex drive was a lot higher then hers. I asked her how much she thinks about sex and her response was "more now that I'm with you". Then it somehow led to her mentioning how she has never enjoyed masturbation. In my mind I was thinking she's lying, but when we fooled about the evidence seemed to support her claim. I'm not sure how to approach the difference in our drives without coming off as perverted.