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Rhapsody, I understand your frustration and I'm sorry you're hurting so much. I do find this thread to be hurtful in its negative generalization of men, though. I wish you could have vented it as "the men in my life are selfish" or "the men I've known are selfish" instead of stereotyping in such a way. If this was a thread written by a man saying "all women are *****es", we would have pounded him to shreds.

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I personally do not feel that I generalized this thread to all MEN - for these are a few of my first post........ in which I did stated

"This is what I am going thru so no hate mail" (and) I used the word "a lot of men" to leave the room open for those that are not..........

and YES - I do know a rare few males that are not SELFISH, but frankly from my POV a lot more than not become SELFISH over time.

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Rhapsody said:
Ok NOW! - this post is about ME and how I am FEELING....... so Please - NO HATE REPLIES.

MEN........ Grrrrrrrrrrrr

Frankly after forty years of being on this earth I can honestly say that a lot of MEN (if not most) are very SELFISH MEAN and CRUEL more in life than they need to be

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Thank YOU Dragonphoto for being HONEST on HOW MEN can really be....... and yes, I know that you guys also love but when the selfishness rules then love gets lost.

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BTW - - - IF a MAN had written a thread saying ALL WOMEN were *****ES - I would have given him 50% of them.
.... but I would NOT have taken it personally against myself just becasue I was a woman, for it was about HIM and HIS LIFE - not mine.