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Originally Posted by Lonely Warrior
In my opinion, it's better to keep your weaknesses to yourself, at least in real life. Keep a good image of yourself in people's mind. People might appear supportive, but I doubt they are not judgmental, even if they don't say anything at the time. Even in the cyber world, I don't think people aren't judgmental. I was here before, and some people were telling me to get real, that more people are worse than me as if my emotions weren't valid!! Others used my posts about my weaknesses against me to tell me when it wan't the place that I'm socially inept!!
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I'm sorry you had that experience on PC, and I'm glad you came back.
Thanks for your reply, I do think we are all judgemental to some degree but in my experience with good friends even though we are aware of flaws there is this overriding love that makes them lessen - if that makes sense. That's how I feel about my friends anyway.
IMO it's easier for people to make snap judgements on the internet, because all we see is it typed up in black & white - not the whole person and their life who we cannot possibly know. I try to be cautious in my responses on here because of that.