I think you just have to trust your boyfriend and see things positively. Being positive is contagious and so if you show more positivity towards him, it will reflect on him and he become positive in life as well.
I think you should stop bothering about it. Bothering over it will not help. It seems that you know your partner well when it comes to that matter, so trust in him.
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