I basically spoil my husband ... Because I WANT to. But it's a mutual deal he also goes out of his way to spoil me too. No not with gifts... With little things. Yes I know my husband can go refill his coffee or tea. ... But I love to do simple things like that.

We have a healthy relationship , even my T is surprised how we waded through so much together and our marriage is stronger than pre implosion 6 years ago.

Just don't forget about self care while helping anyone.