I'm so sorry for all you went through metime.

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noone knows about this side of my life, the bullying etc except the kids of course.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> yep, the same with me. not even family-- in fact my in-laws think he's the best guy any woman could ever ask for. I've talked to his mother and she just excuses everything that he does-- he's wonderful and I should be grateful.

It's even hard for me to post this, as I fear I'll look bad because, afterall, I chose to marry him-- kind of like, I made my bed so I should sleep in it.......

I hope that things have improved for you immensely-- have they? You can PM me about it if you feel more comfortable that way.

Thanks for your support.

mandy