my question is , is it possible for this to happen without drugs involved? for someone with no history, no family history etc. could the trigger just be the extreme poverty see saw? also when he comes back itll be nighttime and then sunday so we cannot do anythign doctor wise for 2 days. on monday we are gonna test those cigs in the lab. and see if there are any chemicals or not. yhen take it from there. i dont know how i am gonna spend 2 days listening to his %#@&#!, sorry i dont be to be rude i love him to death. i just want him to snap out of it.

as for dealing with it, his close frends/family went to pick him up in china. so we were just waiting h=till he got back to treat him bc there are more resources here. how to i make him not call everyone he knows? he calle dmy parents so many times and now they think he is mentally instable i have to worry about other people worrying about me. on top of that, he called work/school etc and said some things that i know he will regret later. i dont know how to control him, i need to know just for the one or two days before we get his diagnosis.,