I bought the three tickets. H hasn't said anything about seeing our son at all. I'm thinking he will call later today and ask to see him over the weekend. At which time I will tell him I made plans and didn't include him. He asked me what my plans were for us celebrating other son's birthday, and I told him a few days ago that I had no plane and that we were each on our own about that. He obviously didn't make any plans with our son for his birthday or my son would have told me he had a conflict.

So the two kids know and are fine with the three of us seeing the show. Neither said 'why not dad come too?'.

I'm just doing a burn about how I can't get the marriage I want from him because he's not capable and I have become absolutely obsessed with it. I just have to try to move on and let go of that anger, accepting defeat.