i understand. i didn`t say do this or do that....i just stated something that i have learned from
"Conversations With God" by Neal Donald Walsh
(or however his name is spelled forgive me)

the best is BEST..no matter for whom...i am happy that you agree...i just think that there is no surprize if you are being abused and have no sex that it all happened...

why are you sure the children muslft be left with him?