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Old Dec 02, 2016, 04:18 PM
JoeS21 JoeS21 is offline
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
You don't have to let her manipulate you into a walking on eggshells guessing game. BPD or not, you can tell her the emotional outbursts do her no good unless she communicates with words to make you understand.
As messed up as it may be, her outbursts do her good. They suggest to me that she cares or likes me, otherwise she wouldn't be having them toward me. Outbursts increase affection. Still wish I understood or could understand her faster.