My T is excellent when we get onto a topic I want to talk about, but she usually finds something and sticks with it even when it's not what I want to talk about. I'm used to T's giving me the space and silence to think about what's on my mind but with her she tends to lead with a topic and it causes me to feel awkward and then shut down. I feel I need some space to think about what's going on with me and then start talking myself. I don't know what to do or how/if to say this to her. Anyone have any thoughts?