One final thought as this is PC.
Love is a a form of programing in someways...to think about others and how your behavior effects others I think is paramount. With a mental illness this can be both challenging on both the giving and receiving end. Think there is wisdom in this...

Below is of course a religious txt, but I think apart from that, from a secuar perspective no one could argue with it.

"So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." Matthew 7:12