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Old Dec 02, 2016, 09:50 PM
JoeS21 JoeS21 is offline
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
Can you describe the outbursts? Are they increasing your affection towards her? Or are they only increasing her affection towards you? Remember, how you set your relationship to be is how your relationship will be, so what you do you are going to keep doing or not doing.

The outburst are sudden, generally involve a raised voice or actual yelling, and lack a logical component. The content tends to not make sense in context to the point that bystanders end up confused or laughing when there are bystanders. They seem to be expressions of intense anger or frustration.

I don't know if they increase my affection or if my affection just stays the same. I wish she didn't have these outbursts because I don't want her to be miserable.

I have no idea how these outbursts could increase her affection towards me. I want her to feel affectionate about me, but can't say much about this. Wish I knew more.

We are still getting to know and understand one another. I am still learning how she reacts to different things. What sets off this and that. What she likes. How to best interact or not interact with her, to ideally make her feel good about me, about herself, and good in general - or at least not bad.