When it comes to being single, and going out on dates, who should set them up? Who should be the one to ask "So hey do you want to meet up this day at this time?"

Should it be the man or the woman? Or does it not matter who asks?

Should the date be agreed upon between the two people not have one person set it all up and then tell the person in advice "Hey so we're having out this day at this time, is that ok?"

The last few guys I am talking too, I have these ideas for dates and then try to set up those days for dates but it always back fires and I never get to go on the dates, because the guy is never free or this happens or that happens.

Like for instance, this one guy who is out of state for work, is coming home on December 12th, and on the 15th there's this concert and I thought we could meet up and have our first date as that concert, but when I asked "Can we meet on the 15th?" he says "Maybe that Saturday".

Well thats already blowing off my idea and then that "MAYBE" is already like a NO answer. Its like WTF.

I don't know what to do about asking guys out on dates or what to do in general really anymore.