LOL No, I sure didn't marry you husband. I know because mine doesn't come out to see what I'm doing. He's totally oblivious because he's too busy living his life vicariously through his... get this... ROMANCE NOVELS! Yup! A 65 yr old man reading romance novels. LOL And MY hubby doesn't want me to be dependent on him in ANY WAY! The only time he doesn't ***** is when we go grocery shopping. Wonder why???

If I need to get my retarded neighbor to help me put up the lights, he won't mind in the least!

There HAS been movement on his part today, though. He even hugged and kissed me and scratched my back a bit ago without me asking! LOL

I'm getting ready to write an email to my DIL. I'm gonna give her some of the ideas posted here about at least trying to identify their problems and writing them down to discuss at a later date.