LMo,

you're doing an incredible job given the difficult circumstances involved. there's much to negotiate w/ the brother, stepmother and your father, hospice workers and such.

you show much strength in how you're handling this. write a novel if you need to as this appears to be a valuable outlet for you at this time.

we're in own world of grief due to our situation so we've been barely able to remember our password let alone sign in.

you're wise to recognize the feelings of past memories being brought to the front due to similarities of helpless feelings or the fears you dealt w/ both your mother's passing and your husband's disease.

keep letting out as you're able. ppl do read. hard to reply in the best state of mind in the best of times....and we're certainly not in good shape w/ our full plate of life's unexpected passings.