My new T is contacting my ex t for information and I am terrified. We have had a lot of contact with ex t this year and alters have told her a lot of things... that I don't want shared with new t. There is so much I don't want her to say. Ex T told me if there are things I don't want her to share that she thinks are important for new t to know she will talk to me first. This is so scary.