There are times when I find myself "looking away" from looking at myself, and I share that because I no longer beat myself up with something like this: "It it in humility that we ponder our arrogance or is it in arrogance that we ponder our humility?"

However, I do go ahead and take a look as long as I am first able to believe I honestly want to better understand myself and how I might better fit myself in relation to others.