I don't know about changing each time you move? What do you mean about move? Are you moving every month to "escape" or something or are we talking about your parents moved when you were 5 and 16 and then you moved out when you finished school or something?

You haven't been out "in the world" very much yet so it's hard to tell what you like, dislike, what others are doing out there, etc. Been mostly "observing" up to now. Too, we aren't any one thing; at 57 I'm coming to see that it is a myth to think we figure everything out and then go out and happily live life, etc. Most people just "happen" into their jobs or pick something as close to what they like as they can. The realities of life have a way of stepping in and messing up the most well-planned ideas/plans we have in our head. We don't pass a certain test, there are no jobs in our field, we get married or have a child or divorce, we travel and find something else we like better, etc. Me and my life didn't begin to make sense for me until a couple years ago when I retired!