#2 - He believes you deserve better?

That is not what he is saying at all...that is a cop out for him to do whatever the H*LL he wants by making you feel (manipulation) that he is not good enough for you...when in fact..he is just done with being with ONE woman and wants to move on and have his cake and eat it to.

You are silly if you put up with this..YOU DO deserve better..but coming from me is a lot different than him saying that.

12 years is a long time..but you crying all the time...feeling like you do and being put in this situation is not acceptable...please find the strength to kick his ***** out of your home (as an early Christmas present to you and your child).