Thanks, everyone. Yes, it's my marriage counselor, not regular T, and yes, T initiates the texts each day that we text, but she also initiated the process of texting – but she did it in a fair and reasonable way. We started doing it when we had to change our schedule and when I couldn't come in twice per week anymore because of where I'm living.

I'm going to have to give some thought to how we can change it up and still be fair to both of us and how to discuss it with her. This is going to be really scary and hard for me but I know it's important.