I was diagnosed with bpd. My T allowed texts and emails. I didn't agree with my diagnosis 100%. When i saw that my T kept a distance and stopped emailing and texting I then started distancing myself. Since I was young I've never like to be where I'm not wanted and will remove myself quickly from the scenario in order to make the other person comfortable and let them do their thing. Then because she labeled me with bpd I had to make sure that I kept an extra distance in all ways. I only saw her once a week and if I thought that I was getting on nerves or she seemed disinterested I would cancel in order to give her breathing room. They was the end result. I didn't want to be attached and I didn't stalk her or obsessed over her. I just wanted to be treated like a normal person.