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Originally Posted by seesaw
I have to admit I've been wondering the same thing as Christina. You seem to have a problem with each job that comes your way.
I understand that you've been sexually harassed, but maybe that has made you too sensitive to other interactions where there is possible criticism?
seesaw
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Please read what I wrote to Christina. No offense, but it sounds like you're blaming me for having all these issues at my previous jobs. Let's face the facts, there will usually be one or more asshole, psycho, control freak, perverts, and people like that at most jobs unfortunately.
It sounds like some of you have been extremely lucky to never have experienced that at work. You have no idea what it's like to be bullied and harassed it seems like. I'm sorry, but I sensing a lack of empathy here and some judgement. Not to be rude, just saying. Try putting yourself in my shoes instead of acting like I'm the problem.
Like others have said, I had a target on my back for being shy, a loner, different, quiet, not having real friends at work, etc....I'm trying to do what I can to make work buddies who'll have my back so that bullies will stay away from me. I'll try to get on my deli managers good side and talk to her more as well as the assistant manager. I'll have to put on an act even when they annoy me. I can do it. It's just draining and I'm not used to that.
Maybe they'll lighten up then and start treating me better. I'll be nice to everyone but I'm sure as hell not there to make friends. If people have an issue with me not wanting to be their friend, that's their issue, not mine.