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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Shy, we can only go by what you have told us.
I don't believe that I'm the only one who's coming to the conclusion that your expectations of work are not the reality of what it's like :-/ A lot of us have worked a lot of jobs and perhaps you could take that into consideration when reading the advice we have given you on several of your posts. I mean that with utmost kindness.
To take matters to the extreme AND to make a point that I hope you will think about, I could (possibly) accuse you of being a bully when you consistently accuse us of lack of empathy.
(Seriously JUST trying to make a point with that. You are NOT a bully  ...a term that I believe is being overused today in general.)
Take care and good luck to you. Most of all, I wish you some peace.
Hugs... |
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Once again, I have just had some bad luck with some jobs and some people. I have gotten along fine with most people at previous jobs. All of my previous managers were ok. I mostly had issues with the silly younger immature queen bee girls at work who'd kiss up to the managers. They were untouchable as the managers liked them.
I was getting frustrated at not getting much support at times and having people act like I'm the one with the issue. I have done nothing wrong. Like I said, I'm different, shy, and mostly a loner, so for some reason, people don't respond well to that. Most people tend to dislike people who are different from them. Introverts only make up a very small part of the population. I don't get why extroverts tend to get offended when we keep to ourselves or label us as being weird. I feel like I'm being judged, so of course I'm not happy about that. I already know that I made some mistakes and I'm not going to make the same ones again.
This is tiring to have to explain myself again and again that I'm not the problem usually. Other people are at times. For example, my deli manager shouldn't have yelled at me when I told her another manager logged me in and approved me working at a different time to make up for my lost time the day tat I was late. I regret not having made up some lie about having an emergency. I should've done that to keep the peace. I don't always think like a savvy person though, ugh!
My manager should have told me that she was the only person that I should come to about a scheduling or time clock issue. She NEVER told me that until recently and yelled at me. She was mean and unprofessional. Not cool. She should've been calm and respectful. I understand that she was upset, but I don't deserve to be yelled at. That was very mean and rude.