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Originally Posted by Apokolips
I totally agree. Case in point is saying the deli manager might be a bully. If expecting you to arrive on time and expecting your job to be done properly and in a timely fashion while leaving your personal issues at home where they belong is considered bullying then call me the queen bee bully. Stop expecting your coworkers and managers to be your friend, but your head down and do your job while keeping your personal drama at home and I can guarantee your employment issues will disappear.
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Well, if it weren't for the fact that she yelled at me, threatened to fire me, and that she got pissed at me for going to another manager to approve my time stamp and stuff like that, that kind of makes her a bully in a way.
Doesn't it? I'm not so sure if my problems will go away if I just do my job. I did just that before and still got bullied. Bully's are on power trips and sick in the head. She never told me that I had to come to her only for clock in issues.
I've already stated that I don't give a **** if they're my friend or not. I just want to be treated with respect. I feel like they're never going to let my mistakes go. I hope that I'm wrong about that. I'll just do the best that I can and do what they tell me to w/o complaining and try not to bug them with to many of the same questions.. Got a notepad today. Oh, and I was accused of giving them attitude when I wasn't doing that at all. All I did was say I know to one assistant manager and she got all pissy and called me rude and thought that I was mad at her. I wasn't, and I told her that I didn't mean to be rude and that she just misunderstood me. Whatever. My new work ally told me that they're cliquey and that they get off on power.
Did I mention that one lady there called my new friend a psycho? How rude! They keep her around since they're so short staffed all the time. Now that she's out due to being injured there, they're even more short staffed than ever.
Did I not mention that people have quit that job left and right and that people often come in sick? Red flag alert anyone? I'll definitely have to be careful and watch my back with these people but try to be nice and friendly to them at the same time. And trust me, they will know nothing about my personal feelings or life at all. I'll only make small talk with them at best as they're all a bunch of gossips there. I've never really ever trusted anyone at work 100%.