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EmptyInside22
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Default Dec 07, 2016 at 07:19 AM
 
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Most people actually like to talk about themselves. By asking the questions, they get what they want (attention, I guess) and I get what I want (not feeling put on the spot).
I find this too kecanoe, I just ask people questions about themselves and how they are feeling because I know that people like to talk about themselves, even if I cant make myself relate to what they are telling me. Its not that I don't care per se... but I'm generally not really fussed with whether people are appreciating the weather or not lol.

I have been diagnosed Schizoid amongst other things and I am nearly a text book example apparently as i fit nearly all the criteria for it (you only have t match a set number of criteria for a diagnosis). Looking back over my life with my therapist, I have certainly had schizoid traits from a very very young age, as young as i can really remember (4 or so certainly by the time i was 6). I am not very good at making relationships and even worse at maintaining the ones i do have... I don't think that will ever change. i highly doubt i'll ever manage an intimate relationship with anyone. I don't know that I would say I ever feel a sense of loneliness either but i do sometimes feel a sense of longing that things were different, i had a relationship once because i felt it was expected of me but i felt nothing at all.

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"Laughing, smiling, joking around
look at me here playing the clown.
Laughing and chatting, life spinning round,
when inside I am slipping, falling down.

Behind my mask I do not smile,
come and sit with me awhile.
You could never imagine how much I hide,
sad and lonely, I'm EmptyInside"
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